Extent of rules?

what are the extent of rules?
how do we discuss punishments when the words are final?
can we even talk about nsfw topics seriously and not be told off?

^^^ those are the basic questions…let me explain in further detail ^^^

1. Extent of rules?
_How far do we need to go? to enforce the rules, they seem to be getting more apparent and more enforced, which is both good and bad.
2. Punishments final?
So, if punishments are final, then…how do we discuss events, and information instead of the face value?
3. NSFW topic discussion?
idk if this one needs explaining…just since we cant show it, can we not talk about it? whats the extent? if a traumatic event happens, can we talk about it? maybe say NSFW in the title?