So I met this guy (A) online on vrchat like a while ago, we became good friends and such, we eventually sent each other photos of what we look like (super sketchy move, I know, leave me alone) he was cute, he said the same about me. We are the same age btw, I also met his best friend (M) from his school on the day we met also. He was cool, we also became good friends also, but I was closer to A, and M saw that too. Then me and A eventually began dating, going on virtual dates, and getting to know each other even more blah blah blah, so like a week later it becomes official pretty much (weird, right, maybe?). Everything seemed awesome. Then this happened. We were all in a playstation party (which is one of the three ways we can talk, ps4, email, vrchat but only when I am at my fathers.) and they both got into game chat while I was watching youtube. Then suddenly my boyfriend had got offline without saying anything, no goodbye, nothing, and so did M. That was weird for me, kind of made me sad, sort of anxious, because i like communication, but I don’t want to be controlling, so I wait.
8 days later, after trying to find out what happened and only getting like one or two emails from M like three days apart. One saying he was tired, and one saying anthony got his game taken away, notice he said game, so I thought that A still has his phone and so he told M… through… text.
See where I am getting at? So. Why no email, why no communication.
Then I see A got on vrchat, because i was on the vrchat website, I use that to see who is in before I get on vrchat or when I am bored. So I email to try to see if he was getting on playstation soon, seeing that he probably got his games back.
A and M both unfriend me on PS4, which is, like I said earlier, one of the only ways we can talk. I got mad, so tired and slightly intoxicated ferris sent an email, a long email at 2 in the morning so they can see it when they got up. I waited another day, no reply, got mad and sent an ultimatum today. and… I just really. I dont know what I want right now, thats why I want help.
here are photos of the emails i sent (the long one and ultimatum) please dont share, and show respect, because I dont have anything to blur their names, but their emails dont show, so plus lol. I tried to keep their identities hidden.
(edit; i forgot the photos)